Moving Target

One of the great difficulties of following Jesus, is that Jesus never tells us where we are going.

If I were to stop by your house tomorrow after work and ask if you want to come with me, you would of course ask me: “Where are we going?” The strangeness of the Christian faith is that our Lord says follow me, and then just keeps moving. He never really arrives anywhere.

And I think that our need for a destination is one of the reasons that Christianity has become so unattractive to many people over the years. We try and insert a destination into Jesus’ instructions: Follow me… to a better life. to holiness. to a stronger family. to the Holy Lands to destroy the Moors. to spiritual enlightenment. to personal happiness.

But the only destination that Jesus seemed set on during his life on earth was the cross. And although he led his disciples there, they didn’t follow him. So he went alone with his mom and a couple of others there to watch.

It is hard to hit a moving target. It is hard to follow Jesus because Jesus doesn’t stand still. So often we just want to know where we are going so we can take the 3 easy steps to get there (regardless of whether we would walk with Jesus). But Jesus doesn’t tell us where we are going. He just asks us to follow him.

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Books for Life

I like to read. I like to read a lot. I normally read about a book a week. Sometimes a lot more. Sometimes less, but not very often. For example, last month, when I had a couple of weeks off from normal responsibilities I read 14 books. It was a good month.

So at the end of 2011 I came to 2 important realizations. First, I need to reread more books. I have read too many good books to think that just because a book is new it is better than one I have read. And my second realization is that I need to ensure a good balance to the books that I read to make sure I am reflecting on different roles in my life.

So I have compiled a list of 12 different “roles” that I have and have assigned at least 1 book I would like to read each year for that role. Although I am fond of many of these books, I am always up for a suggestion on a better book for any particular category. Let me know what you think.

Human
Power of Full Engagement
Ordering Your Private World

Christian
The Critical Journey

Man
From Wild Man to Wise Man

Husband
Love and Respect
His Needs, Her Needs

Father
Parenting with Love and Logic

Leader
Lencioni
Collins

Businessman
Getting to Plan B

Teacher
Teaching to Change Lives
Made to Stick

Missionary
Spiritual Biographies
Oswald Chambers
Hudson Taylor
Jim Elliot

Clergy
The Soul of the Apostolate

Investor
Payback Time/Rule #1 Investing

Landlord
Accidental Landlord

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Jesus and Election Years

Like many (maybe most?) other Americans, I am deeply disturbed by the current state of the political climate in America. Yet, I can’t help but think that we are reaping what we have sown. As a follower of Jesus, I need to step back and not simply critique but to actually construct the sort of culture and climate in which I would like to live.

Jesus had something very pertinent to say to all of us who would engage in political dialogue: “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” This rule should guide EVERY political conversation we find ourselves in, and every political statement we would make. Here’s a couple of applications I thought of, feel free to suggest others. I am simply listing the way I would like to be treated, and so these are my pledges of how I will treat others.

1. I will listen, without interrupting to what other people have to say.
2. I will read, thoroughly, what a candidate has written, not just what the media chooses to share about them.
3. I will try not to be sarcastic.
4. I will critique ideas, not attack character.
5. I will give people the benefit of the doubt.
6. I will not believe elaborate conspiracies.
7. I will not pretend that a bumper sticker or facebook post can properly summarize my political thoughts, and I will not hold others to their summarized rants and raves.
8. I will pray for all my elected officials, whether or not I voted for them.
9. I will focus on the positives of my thoughts, not the negatives of others.

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Missionaries as Musicians

A couple of nights ago one of our Mozambican friends came over for dinner. He picked up the guitar in our main room and began to play a song in Shangaan. Abigail and Alyson sat on the floor and sang along (they know most of the words to Shangaan worship songs). It was a beautiful moment to observe.

And there is a something about this scene that is very missional to me. If the gospel is like music, too often we think that spreading the gospel is like having a concert. And of course, that is part of it. There is nothing wrong with packing a concert hall or stadium to “play our song” as Christians. Billy Graham and Jesus spoke the gospel to very large audiences with amazing effects. But there is something very different when a musician comes into your home and plays. It is intimate and raw. Even though the songs are the same, the music penetrates us differently.

The same is true of the gospel. When we tell the stories of our faith, when we talk to each other about the history of God’s people in our homes, when we talk about the resurrection on a car drive, or when we take communion together over dinner, we play our songs best.

By no means am I opposed to concerts. I am just a fan of “music” in the home as well.

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Going Home

No, we are not planning on visiting the States anytime soon, but I did get to witness the first stage of an amazing homecoming this week.

We have several friends here in Mozambique who work with boys from the street at a place called Masana. Usually these kids end up on the street because their parents can’t afford to keep them at home, or for whatever reason the kids just want to run away. So they go to beg and live on the streets. Masana has a great reputation on the streets as a place to get a meal and also get cleaned up (drugs and alcohol are a major problem for street kids). They also lead dozens of boys into the Kingdom of God.

Today, in addition to witnessing the aftermath of a relay race that involved eggs and milk, I got to witness something spectacular. A boy was preparing to go back home.

Every time a boy chooses to go home, the staff at Masana spends time preparing the boy and his family. They don’t just pat him on the back and say good luck.

There is a special ceremony at Masana’s center. All of the boys get together. Someone retells the story of the prodigal son. And then the team at Masana presents the boy with a new soccer jersey (new robe), new Nike flip-flops (new sandals) and a ring. Then they have a feast, just like in the parable (except usually not a fattened calf).

In addition they provide a whole suitcase full of items for the returning kids, and enroll them in school. They pay the school fees, buy the uniforms, and help the family with several months of food. They check in with the boy every week for the first 6 weeks, then every month after that.

On the wall in the main room of the house is a picture of each of the dozens of boys they have helped return to their homes! Today they added one more photo! Praise God! Praise God! Praise God! A son who was lost is now found! It doesn’t get any better than this! I love this job!

(p.s. I am cooking up some REALLY exciting things with Masana if you are interested in partnering with them in the future. Stay tuned!)

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Temptation to Develop

I am in a small Bible study with some other missionary men. We get together one a week and study the Scriptures and pray for each other.

The other night, as we were discussing the merits of the arguments for and against predestination (a conversation I find a little old and tired, but am happy to allow others to initiate), I thunk a new thought.

Background
I believe God gave Adam and Eve a real choice. They were not predestined to eat from the tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. They could have chosen to stay away. They were real humans with a real choice.

However, I also believe that one day, those of us who follow Jesus and are members of the Kingdom of God will be resurrected. And when we are, we will be perfected. The Greek word translated “perfect” can also be translated “complete”. In a way, I think Adam and Eve were placed in the Garden incomplete. They certainly hadn’t sinned yet, but they weren’t perfected. Are you with me so far?

So God allowed the Tempter into the Garden. Why? Because he doesn’t love Adam and Eve? Of course he loves them. God allowed the Tempter into the Garden to “perfect” them, to help make them complete.

New Thought
You see, when we resist temptation we grow. When we persevere through testing, we develop. I believe that God’s ideal for Adam and Eve was for them to resist the Tempter and grow and develop. Then one day, when they were mature and complete (“perfected”), I think God would have probably removed the tree from the Garden.

I’m sure this thought isn’t original, and there will be plenty of theologians who disagree, but it is what has been noodling around in my head recently.

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” James 1:2-5 NIV 2011

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Skype Confessional

One of the most unexpected phenomenon we have experienced while being here in Mozambique is the surprising amount of contact we still have with friends and family back home. Although we aren’t nearly as plugged into people’s lives as we once were, and we don’t get to watch our nieces and nephews grow up, we are still graciously kept up to speed on a lot of what is happening.

One of the interesting side effects of this connection is how safe people feel venting to us, or sharing secrets. As a pastor, I was regularly entrusted with quite a few secrets and confessions over the years. However, this feels different. Regularly when talking to someone who needs to get something off from their chest they will say, “Well, I suppose it is pretty safe to talk to you since you are half way around the world…”

It’s true. We are half way around the world. And I guess that makes me your virtual missionary bartender. You can pour out your sorrows and secrets knowing I will take them to the grave…and there is very little chance I will run into anyone who cares about them.

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